(Narrated by Eleven Labs' Text to Speech AI)
In his book 'Psychology of Money', Morgan Housel described how his daughter has a few dozen mental models of the world, and she'll always have a crystal clear explanation of any experience by fitting it directly into that mental model: "dad isn't playing with me, I wanted him to play with me, I'm now sad."
She doesn't ponder the why or the how, she tells herself a coherent story based on what she does know, and that's enough.
That got me thinking (terrible idea, I know).
As we get older, we refine the narrative. It becomes complex, as it should, as we gather more information to inform the narrative. Our analysis of the how and why of each experience informs our thoughts, decisions, actions.
We all form our perceptions of reality based on our mental models. On patterns. Reference points. Wanting to replicate or avoid the emotions resulting from lived experiences.
We get wiser, as the spiderweb of our pattern recognition becomes more complex and mature.
We learn to appreciate nuance. That is beautiful. We need to evolve our views based on new information. Strong beliefs loosely held. If we didn't, we'd all be insufferable stubborn closed minded bigots.
But there's a case for being the naive 4 year old.
It would be foolish to start a business if you consider the >90% chance of failure.
It would be foolish to go on a date if you consider all the reasons why there may not be a connection.
It would be foolish to invest in a startup if you consider the chances of that being the one that changes the world forever.
It would be foolish to make a cold call if you consider how much the person on the other end disdains being cold called.
But, every now and then, we need to be foolish, to be naive, to be mesmerized by the opportunity in front of us.
The world moves forward from these bold moves underlined by a beautiful blissful ignorance.
Credit to all the founders in my network who have been, are being, and will be "foolish", and seek to improve the world.
She doesn't ponder the why or the how, she tells herself a coherent story based on what she does know, and that's enough.
That got me thinking (terrible idea, I know).
As we get older, we refine the narrative. It becomes complex, as it should, as we gather more information to inform the narrative. Our analysis of the how and why of each experience informs our thoughts, decisions, actions.
We all form our perceptions of reality based on our mental models. On patterns. Reference points. Wanting to replicate or avoid the emotions resulting from lived experiences.
We get wiser, as the spiderweb of our pattern recognition becomes more complex and mature.
We learn to appreciate nuance. That is beautiful. We need to evolve our views based on new information. Strong beliefs loosely held. If we didn't, we'd all be insufferable stubborn closed minded bigots.
But there's a case for being the naive 4 year old.
It would be foolish to start a business if you consider the >90% chance of failure.
It would be foolish to go on a date if you consider all the reasons why there may not be a connection.
It would be foolish to invest in a startup if you consider the chances of that being the one that changes the world forever.
It would be foolish to make a cold call if you consider how much the person on the other end disdains being cold called.
But, every now and then, we need to be foolish, to be naive, to be mesmerized by the opportunity in front of us.
The world moves forward from these bold moves underlined by a beautiful blissful ignorance.
Credit to all the founders in my network who have been, are being, and will be "foolish", and seek to improve the world.